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JUDGE ORVILLE W. McGINNIS
Permit me to extend to you and your family my sympathy in your bereavement at the death of your son Paul. It is with hesitation that I try to convey to you my grief and regret at your misfortune, considering that it may be somewhat of an intrusion upon the sanctity of your sorrow, and I appreciating that the most that can be said or done by friends cannot lessen your grief and loss. Still, from my experience, I have learned that were it not for the sympathy of our friends, such an ordeal as yours would be almost unbearable.
I have observed with pleasure the pride which you have taken in your son Paul's character and career and with what solicitude you have followed him and the love with which you have cherished him. I hoped that he might return to you unmaimed and with the honors he so richly deserved and so heroically earned.
As a father I can understand your plans and hopes for his future, and how you dreamed that he would live a full, rich, honorable life of service, affording to you all the joys and re wards of fatherhood; and I can, therefore, understand your despair at having all your hopes blasted by his untimely death. Yet, it has seemed to me as I have contemplated your son s death that if I, as a father, were afforded an opportunity to choose whether my own son made the supreme sacrifice, or to live his life to its natural end in the usual, ordinary ways of life, I would find the choice not altogether one-sided, for certainly there is a measure of compensation for the loss and sacrifice, in having a son with a character and spirit which is willing to make the sacrifice in the cause for which your boy gave his all.
While my heart goes out to you and Mrs. Funkhouser in deepest compassion, still I congratulate you in having such a hero for a son.
With my deepest sympathy in your bereavement and my heartiest congratulations that the honors and glories of the true and the brave were given unto your son and through him unto you, and with hope that Divine consolation may be vouch safed unto you, I beg to remain, sincerely yours.
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