Charles Esselstyn was the son of Cornelius and Clara
Esselstyn, of pure Knickerbocker stock. He was born in Claverack, in
this county, in October, 1803, entered the freshman class of Union College
in 1822, and graduated in the same class with Hons. Elias W. Leavenworth and
Josiah Sutherland, both from this county.
He died at
Hudson, on the 21st day of December, 1868, in the sixty-sixth year of his
age. He had been for more than forty years a practitioner, and for a
considerable portion of the time a leading and successful one, at the
Columbia bar. He studied law with Hon. Thomas Bay, and was for a time
after his admission to the bar his law partner in the city of Hudson.
He subsequently removed to the town of Livingston, and having married, in
May, 1832, Sarah M. daughter of Rev. Herman Vedder, of Gallatin, he
continued the practice of law at the village of Johnstown for about thirty
years, first as the law partner of Killian Miller, Esq., and after Mr.
Miller's removal to Hudson, of John M. Welch, Esq., and Seymour L. Stebbins,
resident of the town of Livingston, he filled many offices of trust.
Was justice of the peace, superintendent of schools, and supervisor, and for
several years was chairman of the board of supervisors of Columbia county.
In 1859 he
was elected surrogate of the county, and in 1860 he removed to the city of
Hudson, where he continued to reside to the period of his death. In
1863 he was re-elected surrogate by a flattering majority in a county
hostile to him in politics. He discharged the delicate and important
duties of this office with great acceptance to the people of the county, and
to all suitors in his courts.
Esselstyn was never ambitious of public distinction, and rather declined
than sought occasions to appear before the public. But for a
constitutional diffidence he was well calculated to shine as an advocate in
Henry Hogeboom, on the occasion of the death of Mr. Esselstyn, said, "I was
his fellow-pupil at the Hudson Academy, and well remember the forensic
promise of his early years, and how, in easy, flowing, and graceful
elocution, he bade fair to outstrip all his youthful competitors, and he
would very probably have done so, but for his native modesty and retiring
disposition. He had many of the striking qualities and characteristics
of a successful orator; a fine-shaped head, a full and expressive eye, great
case and flow of language, a happy address, quick perceptions, and perhaps,
more than all, a power of ready adaptation in conversation and manner, to
the character, tastes, and tone of his audience.
eminently a man of the people, popular with all classes, but especially so
with the great middle class, with whom he was proud to identify himself, and
to whom he claimed to belong. Without a touch of aristocracy in his
composition, all his feelings and associations and sympathies were with the
masses of the people, and he was eminently beloved by them. No man
probably ever went to his grave with fewer personal enemies.
also a great pacificator. His disposition and aim were to settle
controversies and re-establish harmony among litigants in the courts, and
those who had differences in private life. Hence, in his office of
surrogate, his mission was a most useful and successful one, and in his
whole career of private and professional life he left hosts of friends, who
look back with sentiments of grateful regard upon his successful efforts to
harmonize and heal their troubles. He died such a death as such a man
should die. Patient, resigned, and contented, he yielded himself
without a murmur to the decrees of his heavenly father. Finding death
invading the citadel of life with slow but certain step, he reconciled
himself to his inevitable fate, and making his peace, as his friends have
just reason to hope and believe, with his Maker and Redeemer, he awaited the
summons to depart, and when it came sank away peacefully, and without
convulsions or a groan, to his final rest."